My LOVE Will Go On - Celine Dion (Final Fantasy)

Love is following you- Twila Paris

1. Be clear about the fact that you really want to find your soulmate. Believe that there is somebody out there for you. Know in your heart that you deserve this great love, because you do. Do some soul-searching and get clear on exactly what you need in relationships.

2. Make a wish! Start by writing a very specific wish list about what kind of person you want to attract: for example, never been married, wants children, likes to dance, is spiritual, is not afraid to commit, has no addictions, etc. Be clear about your deepest values and ideals, and look for a partner who has the same values.

3. Spend a few minutes every day (just before bed is a good time) reading your wish list and thinking about this special person who will come into your life. Imagine your life with your soulmate in it.

4. Get healthy and get beautiful! Start from the inside out (body, mind, and spirit). Healthy people attract healthy relationships. You can’t escape the universal rule, “Like attracts like.”

5. Do away with the old! Start by getting rid of old emotional baggage. If you have a long line of unsuccessful relationships, then you probably need some attitude shifts before you are ready for your soulmate. Hanging on to previous partners through guilt, regret, or resentment can create obstacles in your search for a new relationship. You need to resolve and let go of these negative attitudes before you can move on to a more positive, loving relationship with your soulmate. Once you have cleared away the old, you can make room for the new.

6. If you have recently ended a relationship, take some time off from romantic relationships. Enjoy your own company. Get to know who you really are, and enjoy being single.

7. When you feel you are ready, start dating again. But be selective! Think quality, not quantity, when choosing whom you want to date, stay away from unloving, untrustworthy people. Remember your wish list and don’t compromise on what you want and need from your relationships. Remember, you are dating in order to find your soulmate, not just a mate.

8. Don’t obsess about finding your soulmate. Longing will bring only misery. Believe that when the time is right you and your soulmate will find each other. In the meantime, work on your career and enjoy your friends and family.

9. Now, believe! This last step can the hardest for some people. Finding your soulmate is a matter of destiny. Know in your heart of hearts that you will be reunited with your beloved when the time is right for both of you. Until then, be patient and wait on the will of Heaven.