Do you believe all things happen for a reason? I do. I also believe that best things  happen when you least expecte them. However, my friend appears to believe she's being punished for letting go the good man when she was a teenager.  I'm not blaming her for that as she's going through a tough time currently. It's just I can't help wondering what relationship has turned us into? She used to be a very confident, outgoing and smart girl, but after two perfect, fun relationships in high school, which she chose to throw it all away, followed by an unhappy ended relationship(hardly) in college, then a relationship with no future ......, and now she is doubting if she's punished by ending those two relationships since she seems have trouble to hold on to a relationship for long. In just gew years, she turns herself into this bit shy and stay-in-door person.

If we do keep seeing the same kind of man/woman, would we have the gut to invest in the next same or similar relationship after a bad ended relationship? Will you be able to accept a guy who's nothing you've ever expected from a boyfriend?